Recommend me what you have, I like doom and atmospheric music, as well as plenty of black metal. But I'd prefer the traditional grim vocal/rasp, the kind of wail vocal that i see typically in this movement just doesn't do anything for me, though some of the music is excellent.

Try the following.
An Autumn for Crippled Children: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZJ44fEiGdl4
Epitimia: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBGmUg3yk-k
Peste Noire's first album uses a ridiculously filthy rasp. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5S8YLYikW3c (this song begins with a wail though)
Of course, there's Shining. Kvarforth sounds more angry than anything really. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEtxrn7169U

And if you don't mind instrumental DSBM, give Abyssic Hate's demo a shot. It's one of my favourite DSBM releases in fact. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kvyhW_-sMK0 (If you liked it, though, stay the fuck away from their full-length. Aside from having the terrible wail you're avoiding, the production is utter garbage as well.)
Or maybe Negative or Nothing: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P9hPTXtce6s

Anhedonia.
Nargaroth (Gebliete Des Regens)
Coldworld

Awesome stuff so far thanks guys, I knew Coldworld and Shining before, but this stuff is perfect.

Noones said Nocturnal Depression?

..
Nocturnal Depression

just been listening to Xashtur "nocturnal poisoning" its sounds like what you might be looking for...well im enjoying it anyway